Everyone wishes to have better life in terms of finances, health or peace of mind. But many fail to find the right balance or even struggle to keep up themselves. This is due to varied reasons and outlook to life. Here are tips on how to change your life for better
- Adopt a good discipline
- Plan your life
Be in a company (no alone or isolated)
There is a saying that ‘tell me about your friends and I will tell you about you’. This means that you select your friends based on your personality or you are like minded as you. But if you notice further, you will know that all your friends would be almost of your status or success in society or life.
So the first and foremost thing is to have better company. I remember my father who had a smoking habit. I used to write him letter during my boarding school days to stop smoking. But he never quit the habit for over 15 years. However, we shifted our-self to a new locality. There he had a company of all the retired people who never smoke. So, in their company he felt awkward to smoke and he quit the habit permanently.
Similarly, a cousin brother of mine used to drink a lot while he worked in a bar. But when he shifted the job, his drinking habit went down significantly.
So, if you wish to be a politician, you cannot be in a company of devotees. Similarly, if you wish to be into a business, you should attend a company of business people and build friendships. A change is very easy when in company of the people.
Have a better education
Education is one of the best, clean and easy ways to transform human lives. It always helps you to get better in what you wish to do. It also provides scope for building like minded friends who can be in touch for lifetime.
A right education would help in mind maturity, build discipline, improve communication and inculcate proper ethics in you. If you notice, you will find that countries with better education have come out of poverty and progressing economically. Wile those nations with lack of proper education have their masses still struggling with poverty in spite of technical advancement in human civilization.
Education would train you for better career and choices in life.
Maintain good health.
Health is vital to experience better life. It is also essential to perform day to day activities towards success and also grow up in career. Improper health can disrupt normal life style and cause great agony if neglected. Hence, we need to have better health though proper food and life style habits.
Have a family
Family is one of the critical elements for every person. It is a private association of a person and is with him in every aspect of his life.Those with a good family support will be confident, and less craving for others love.
Further, family helps him in case planning, struggle, failure and supports him in success. Without family it would be difficult for one for proper transformation in life. Family is like a reflection of a persons life. If he is successful, his family also would be so. So having a family is very important to change for better.
Adopt a good discipline
Discipline is one which decides the progress of a person in his endeavor. A person with discipline can have more time and peace of mind in life as he is doing things as per the time in a calm manner. He is good in health, work and also has positive outlook in the eyes of others. So, one should adopt a right discipline to change themselves.
Accept the reality and try to adopt to change
If there is a failure or you were born in unfavorable circumstances, then the first thing is to accept yourself and your conditions as they are. This will help you see things clearly and move forward.
Instead, if you are not able to accept your situation or condition, you will always have thoughts about it and become too engaged and stop transforming yourself. So, always accept your failure or conditions as they are and move ahead in life.
Take help of your near and dear ones.
Any issue can be solved fast with right contact and help. Without them, the same would takes months even years to get solved. But the help of right persons who can help is in life, we can get the things done really fast.
Watch your friends and colleagues over a period of time.
Friends are ones who act like companion in whole life. They can teach you many things by their mere presence and being in touch with you. Try to have few honest friends in life if not many.
Try to follow principles and ethics of society.
A person with principle and ethics is acceptable for a society. So, one should have certain ethics in life which help him develop and identity in a society or at workplace.
Plan your life
Last but not least, it is important to plan your life. Even if you do not plan your life, still life will have plan for you. Instead, of falling prey for it, it better to have your plan. This will help you be satisfied in life.