How to Pray Effectively | 10 Tips on How to Pray to God for Help
Prayer is the easiest and most effective way to feel the power of god.
I love prayer as it makes me stay more composed, focused and peaceful in life.
But, many wonder what is prayer and how to do it.
Though few of them know how to pray to god, still some believe that it is just going to a temple, church or mosque and perform some rituals to lord?
Also, some consider it is just going out and sitting in silence or else going for loud verbal utterances.
But in reality it is just talking to god directly and asking for help or sharing your sorrow with him.
Many people who go to all these places have an intention to pray to lord. But very few are aware of what prayer is?
As per bible, Jesus says that one can pray to lord from any where at any time. And there is no need to go for temple or church or any other place of worship to do so.
But people like Gandhi who were staunch believers in prayer used to go for a place of worship to preform.
So the question then comes is what is prayer and how to pray to god.
In all most all religions, prayer is taught to an individual since childhood at his home, during schooling, by family etc.
To many these prayers are a routine to keep them fit for daily responsibilities or a way of upholding their religion.
But prayer is an easy solution for our spiritual growth & peace of mind .
So What is prayer?
I am not a religious guru or spiritual teacher but from my experience I believe that
Prayer is a direct communication with almighty by the devoted one.
That is only the one who prays, talk to almighty while there is not voice or words from lord in return.
How to Pray Effectively to God
1. Develop a Firm belief:
2. Talk to him
3. Be clean & calm
4.Go to lonely place or any place of worship
5. Have something to ask for
6. Hold your hands near to heart or close your palms.
7. Close your eyes preferably
8. Have a picture or idol of your deity
9. Pray in group or with family
10. Promise to offer something in return.
1. Develop a Firm belief: Prayer starts with a belief in god. If one does not believe in god, he cannot pray. So first build up a firm belief in god. You can do this by listening to others stories or miracles. You can even test him for something a build a strong belief.
Once you develop belief in god, it is easy to pray to god. The more your believe, the more often you tend to pray to him.
2. Talk to him: Prayer is talking to god. This is just like a kid talk to himself while playing alone, here you have to talk to god. But what you talk includes like asking for forgiveness or confessing him something. You can also tell him how you feel about something in the day you came across. This communication is one way communication and is only possible if you believe in his presence.
3. Be clean & calm: Prayer makes one feel holy, pure, pious and pleasant. So, being clean helps you achieve the feel faster. See that you had your bath, wear clean clothes and also stay in a cleaner place for prayer. Besides try be calm by heart and select a place which is calm. Being silent and calm helps one achieve intensity in prayer. Those looking you may be amused at your behavior. Still, try to pray with intensity in a calm posture.
4. Go to lonely place or any place of worship: During prayer, it is good to avoid distractions. For this one can opt to pray in a lonely places like at home in personal room, roof etc. Also one can go to places of worship like temples, church etc. Since, people present in these places also have same mood of devotion to god, you can easily achieve the intensity in prayer.
5. Have something to ask for: Prayer can be regular and with much intensity if you have something to ask for. During my studies, i used ask for particular level of highest score in exams with sincerity. This enhanced the intensity and also m determination to study well. I was regular and also committed in the school. Finally i was a topper in the batch and it was possible because i asked for it.
6. Hold your hands near to heart or close your palms. Praying with folded hand and placing hand at heart will intensity your love to the god and also enhance the prayer. So always fold your hands near to your heart and face for better prayer.
7. Close your eyes preferably: During prayer, it is good to close your eyes as it will prevent distractions. Also your mind can be blank with closed eyes enhancing your focus on prayer.
8. Have a picture or idol of your deity: Pray before your favorite god in the form of a picture or idol. This will help you feel his presence before you and also perform the prayer better.
9. Pray in group or with family: Praying in group or with your family or parents helps you more. It will enhance the desire to achieve the ones you ask for. Further, the family will stay focused on the issue you asked for and also you will be more regular for prayers as other members of the family.
10. Promise to offer something in return. Prayer for most of us will involve asking for a desire to happen. And for those who pray, definitely god will bless you with the desire. But, as a sense of gratitude you need to offer back something. This you can do by promising to offer something in return. This will help pray with confidence and also with commitment.
Prayer is one of the most simplest and effective means to feel the power of god. By doing it regularly, one can feel better, secure, more confident and achieve success in life. It also helps stay in right path in life without getting addicted to drugs or substances as it gives you relief in times of stress.